The Unbecoming Course Library 

The Full Series

This body of work begins from the premise that wholeness, capacity, and awareness are inherent to being human and were never lost. What changes over time is how experience organizes itself: how attention narrows, how distance forms, and how much effort is required to stay oriented within life as it moves.

Each course approaches this premise from a different angle—conceptual, lived, and experiential—to make visible what is already shaping experience. 

The Principles course establishes the ground. It names the assumptions that organize how we relate to ourselves through assumptions about wholeness, time, capacity, change, and the human condition, and applies pressure to the belief that something essential is missing or must be achieved. 

The Lived Truths course stays closer to experience itself. It traces how identity, protection, relationship, and embodiment are already at work beneath conscious intention. Rather than aiming for insight, it attends to recognition and how truth registers through the body, contact, and moments that don’t resolve through explanation.

The Phases course follows the recurring movements of Unbecoming: Awareness, Unraveling, Emerging, Animating, and Returning as patterns that appear and reappear across a life. The work unfolds alongside ordinary experience, trusting the system’s own pacing and intelligence.

Taken together, The Unbecoming Series is a coherent orientation that allows change to occur without force and contact to deepen without reducing being human to a project.

Included in each course:

• 20+ In-Depth Learning Modules: Each course moves slowly through its material—six principles, six lived truths, or five phases—allowing the concepts to be met as orientations rather than objectives.

• 50+ Audio Lessons: Each module includes multiple audio pieces that stay with the core ideas and how they show up in lived experience.

• Downloadable Journals: Each module includes a PDF companion with journal-style reflections and questions designed to surface assumptions.

• Experiential and Somatic Explorations: Alongside the conceptual material, each course includes experiential pieces that bring the work into the body to stay close to how experience is actually lived.

• Ongoing Access: The material remains available to return to over time, as life reorganizes and different aspects of the work come into view.

At its core, this process is concerned with how you came to be who you are and what becomes possible when you remain in relationship with yourself.